About us
Meet Phyllis Davis
Phyllis Davis has spent 41 years and three million air miles teaching leaders ethics and etiquette. Her new book, Oh, Wise Grasshopper…, puts everything she knows in your hands by teaching you the professional polish that opens doors, and the character that keeps them open.
- 40+ Years Experience
- 3 Million Air Miles
- Thousands of Professionals Trained
- Author of Three Books
My Story
“My journey has taken me across the USA and around the world, traveling more than three million air miles to train leaders, organizations, and professionals from every industry. Along the way, I’ve discovered that success isn’t determined by titles or achievements alone it’s built through character, courtesy, and the way we treat people every day.
As the author of three books on ethics and etiquette in American business, I’ve dedicated my career to making timeless principles practical, approachable, and relevant for today’s world.
Growing up as the daughter of a mother who was a World War II pilot, I learned early that courtesy is not weakness; it’s strength with good posture. Those lessons continue to shape everything I teach today.”
My Philosophy
“I believe that ethics and etiquette are not outdated traditions; they are essential life skills that build trust, strengthen relationships, and create lasting success.
Professionalism begins with simple everyday choices: listening carefully, communicating respectfully, taking responsibility, and treating others with genuine kindness.
When people lead with integrity and consideration, they create workplaces, businesses, and communities where everyone can thrive.”
- "Courtesy is not weakness. It is strength with good posture."
My Approach
“My approach combines practical experience with real-world solutions that professionals can apply immediately.
Rather than focusing on rigid rules or outdated traditions, I teach modern ethics and etiquette through relatable stories, humor, and practical examples that make learning engaging and memorable.
Whether speaking to executives, entrepreneurs, students, or organizations, my goal is always the same; I help people communicate with confidence, build trust, and become leaders others respect.”
People are Saying
Discover how readers, business leaders, and professionals have been inspired by Phyllis Davis’ practical wisdom on ethics, etiquette, and leadership.
“Phyllis Davis guides us all through those unsure moments of our complex, stressful, fast-paced, and depersonalized corporate lives, helping us to put one foot in front of another in putting our best foot forward. She sets an example for us all to follow. Thank you, Phyllis. The world is a better place thanks to you.”
Tom Silveri
CEO & President, DBM, Inc.
“Phyllis Davis offers practical advice for everyone who collaborates with people. That advice creates goodwill for success for all people in every kind of business.”
Rear Admiral Mack C. Gaston
Vice President, Global Government Solutions, EDS
“Not since Dale Carnegie has there been a person with the ability to affect so many people in such a positive way. Phyllis shows us how to enrich our business and personal lives. She has shown us not only how to succeed in business but, more importantly, how to be better people.”
Carl W. Starr Jr.
President, TPG Inc.
“Phyllis Davis is beneficial to business and society. She captured her audience with the future essence and needs of business. Her message inspired everyone who attended.”
Larry Ahlquist
General Manager, City Club on Bunker Hill
“Phyllis Davis is a reference guide for today’s complicated business and personal situations. She’s talented, very funny, and an asset to any group.”
David R. Froelke
General Manager, Westfield Corporation
“Phyllis Davis spoke to our group recently, and we found her information and presentation style informative and very enjoyable. Her content is well delivered, and simple courtesy can enhance our work environment.”
Elaine Palaiologos
Los Angeles County Personnel Directors' Committee
“Nothing has given me more insight into relating with people than Phyllis Davis. She brings us back to the very roots of being human and teaches us how success relates to our interactions with others.”
Sam Rabinowitz, M.D.
President, MemberConnect.biz
“Phyllis Davis captures the essential pieces of business etiquette to command a stronger personal presence. She has created a dynamic reference for both newcomers and seasoned professionals.”
Kurt James
Manager of Human Resources Operations
“Phyllis delivers her message as clearly and powerfully as anyone in America today. Listen to her speak, hire her to train your people, and then change your world.”
Phillip S. Estes
Regional Vice President, TranSystems Corporation
“Phyllis’ training was the most exciting, professional, and thorough training I have ever received. I highly recommend her training to anyone who wants to become a certified etiquette expert.”
Sharon A. Hill
American Business Etiquette Expert
“Companies and individuals around the country need to hear what you are saying. We can literally gain a competitive edge by practicing the values, morals, ethics, and transparency you teach.”
Steve Terry
QWest Information Technologies
“Phyllis offers important, well-grounded insights for professionals at every stage of their career. She provides practical knowledge that helps create lasting success.”
Steven Zuback
President, Zuback CRC
“Phyllis is the symbol of what she stands for. Her work should be taught in every organization. Her teaching is a must in today’s business world.”
Anne LeBaron
Southwest Regional Director, Dunhill Staffing Systems
“Phyllis Davis taught us vital skills for surviving in today’s business world and reinforced timeless manners that remain invaluable in professional life.”
Marlene Sharp
Director of Development, Renaissance-Atlantic Films
“I have found no other person whom America needs more than Phyllis Davis. She reminds us what business is really about and why ethics matter.”
Peter Brusso
CEO, Infocard.cc
“Uncommon sense, invigorating and logical presentation. A solid business base.”
Suzanne Case
Office Manager
“Phyllis Davis’ teaching was excellent. I feel so much more informed about how to manage business situations. Now I can follow the rules, relax, and take care of business.”
Jamila Johnson
Project Manager
“Phyllis Davis presented three standing-room-only seminars. Her delivery is superb. She is a true professional with exceptional enthusiasm and knowledge.”
Mark Costa
Member Relations Director, City Club on Bunker Hill
“Excellent information for professional development.”
Phasith Nanthavong
Project Engineer
“Phyllis Davis provides an empowering philosophy for life that is also the best guarantee for success in business—a perfect blend of wisdom, ethics, and practical experience.”
Karen Norris
Norris & Associates Realtors
“As organizations face the challenge of restoring credibility and integrity, Phyllis Davis provides the wisdom that empowers people to reach their ultimate potential.”
Brian Weiner
Financial Consultant, Smith Barney
Ready to Strengthen Your Organization?
Whether you’re planning a conference, developing leaders, improving workplace culture, or looking to become a certified trainer, Phyllis Davis offers practical solutions that create lasting impact.